Comments on: Keychain’s KJ Challenge!

By: Adam Elite

Adam Elite — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 19:39:44 +0000

I tend to avoid forums these days and interact with real people in real social environments. I also befriended some awesome people who give tips who aren’t necessarily PUAs but are aware of Patterns of Psychology behind dating and have girlfriends themselves.

There is nothing worse though than a Keyboard Jockey trying to enforce their “advice” on you especially when their High Post Count and Times of Day Posted gives away the fact they don’t go out themselves.

By: Hero

Hero — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 18:03:42 +0000

I think an article like that would be really helpful. I know before I did a bootcamp and a couple of consults. I hated going out and felt like I had no clue. I had read lots of books and listened to a bunch of products but it seemed like it didn’t help much at all. Now I go out and It gets easier and easier. I have bad nights sometime but most are decent to or good. There is so much to leran but now I feel like I can go a book or product and try things to address my sticking points or do a phone consult if I’m really stuck. You are absolutely right. The only way we learn is in the field.

By: Keychain

Keychain — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 19:21:31 +0000

@Julian,

Thanks man, glad you enjoyed the ideas! Great to hear you’ve been out doing the approaches and having the adventures…it’s so much fun So, see you in Berlin?

@Hero,

Good idea Hero, I’ll put something together on the basics of opening, transitioning and include some ideas of social conversation pieces.

In the meantime, check out http://www.adventuresofkeychain.com/2009/08/31/keychain%E2%80%99s-daygame-primer/ for some cool ideas on this.

Keys

By: Hero

Hero — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 18:04:12 +0000

Keychain,

This is a good article. How ever I think alot of new guys don’t know how to socialize. I think one of the main sticking points for beginners is running out of things to say. Maybe you could do a follow up article helping them with the basics. Opening and transitioning into social conversations and what are some examples. Thanks

By: iljios (julian)

iljios (julian) — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 22:05:09 +0000

First of all, great article! Thank you Keys, you’re a great inspiration!

I actually tried the 30 day challenge. It might sound a little strange but I document my approaches and it’s helping me big time! It’s so much fun… after just one month of approaching 30 women (one per day on average), opening has become a lot easier for me!

For example: in the supermarket I see a beautiful girl and I ask her: “You look like you might know which cheese goes well with this type of Pasta” : ) and I show her the pasta. Then we talk for a while about which cheese to buy and I ask her if she knows how to cook. She says: sure! And I say: Great, so you could cook me a nice dinner. She laughs and I slighlty touch her on the arm. Then I say: “To be honest, I just made that up. I thought you were really beautiful and I had to come over, say hi and find out if you were intelligent at all.” — well, you have to try it yourself to see how much fun it is. And it really does work!

I’m about to start month 2 of my 12-month challenge of approaching 30 women per month : )

Listen to Keychain: stop studying seduction material and just start approaching for a while! It’s f… awesome.